Many people encounter Lilith in other people and do not like the experience.
When she appears in the form of others, there can be conflict as one person feels a need to get away from another in order to be free. Or one person insists on getting respect and isn’t getting it.
In other situations, one person’s body doesn’t open to another’s when it comes to intimacy, and confusion, resistance, fear, and more can result.
At other times, one person wants another to be who/what he or she wants or needs, but the other can’t do it.
We are all playing out our culture’s imbalance between masculine and feminine energy, and these are some of the ways that it can manifest.
But we long to be and relax in our relationships as Lilith. We need to release the grip our cultural, filial, and relationship pasts have had on us and own this archetype without doubt, guilt, or shame.
So how can we do this?
My home-study course Loving Lilith: An End to Shame is a potent place to start. It’s mostly channeled, and has high-level information on transforming your relationship with the energy of the instinctive wild within you.
In your root or 1st chakra, there is a wisdom that says “yes, please” and “no, thank you”. It does so without rationalizing or explaining, as it’s instinct tied into your immune system, biochemistry, and energetic/emotional field.
When Lilith is activated within you, you have a knowing that you might not be able to explain. Yet your whole life it’s likely that you’ve been taught not to trust it. If you don’t trust it, the prevailing teachings go, then you’ll be safe because you’ll fit into the way everyone else lives.
Lilith’s autonomous journey, however, requires that you know and trust yourself on the deepest levels so you can make the decisions that are best for you … no matter what others or the world itself says.
The course is organized into 9 modules and comes with 4 channeled meditations from Ascended Master Djehuty (Hermes, Thoth, St. Germain, Merlin) that total almost 2 hours.
I hear from clients using it that it’s helping them get to the bottom of the most serious life histories that have kept them from being willing to know and trust themselves.
I love what I’ve been hearing from them, and invite you to check it out on this page to read all the details.
While this course is mostly channeled, you can check out my take on the astrology of the true Black Moon Lilith in your own birth chart with the Black Moon Lilith Natal Report.
My book Lilith: Healing the Wild will give you the full story on myth, archetype, and astrology of this often misunderstood part of you. I begin with the truth that Lilith is part of you and can be listened to and honored, not that she’s a demon and should be feared.