Evolutionary Astrologer, Energy Worker, and Channel Tom Jacobs (tdjacobs.com, healingsuicide.com) describes the 9 stages of the Lilith archetype and how to understand moving through them all toward healing.
The 9 stages, as detailed in the book Lilith: Healing the Wild:
1. Asserting Equality
2. Meeting Attempts to Dominate or Edit Us
6. Grieving and Mourning
7. Accepting Responsibility
8. Recommitting to What’s Important
9. Re-entering the World
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Read all about your own Lilith placement and transits and progressions to it for 5 years in the Black Moon Lilith Natal Report: https://www.tdjacobs.com/products/natal-reports/
The Lilith Pages: https://www.tdjacobs.com/articles/the-lilith-pages/
Lilith: Healing the Wild book: https://www.amazon.com/Lilith-Healing-Wild-Tom-Jacobs/dp/1456433016/
The Lilith 7-hour MP3 set: https://www.tdjacobs.com/services/learn-astrology/#astrologycourses